“Without knowing it, I take him or her for the unknown object of my desire, the object unknown to me. I identify you with the object that you lack. If, innocently or not, I take this detour, the Other as such, the object of my love, will necessarily fall into my toils. The way the Other is conquered is the way of ‘I love you even if you don’t want me to.’


I’m well aware that out my window there’s so many places to go but all in good time